"before your spouse deploys are you irritable? is your spouse getting on your nerves?"
A few MilSpouses have told me that that is a normal thing to happen before your spouse deploys. I'm not going to lie, I'm a moody person - not 24/7, thank goodness - so I know I get annoyed and irritated really quick (ie: the TV maybe too loud and BAM! I'm irritated.) But lately its getting to the point that DH is getting on my nerves more and more. I feel like his picking on every little thing I do lately. I feel as though I barely see him and when I do see him he's "not there" but on the phone talking about work. I obviously don't say a world because I know he's deploying soon and I know he has to help the other Marines get their things together, I understand. But...is this normal or is it me?